PASSION

Ok so I am passionate about Jesus! I am also passionate about adoption. I was listening to K-Love radio on Monday and they were talking about some stats from Max Lucado. I missed the numbers, so I looked some up.

There are 2 to 3 BILLION Christians in the world.
There are 143 million orphans.
There are 100 million more kids living on the streets.

If every Christion family adopted one child or got one off the streets, problem solved!

I know it's not that easy. Many Christian families are living in third world countries (pray for them) or in poverty right here. Many are elderly. Most families would find the cost prohibative. But...if God tells you to adopt-ADOPT!

If that is not you, find another way to help the orphans, the most fragile of God's children. Give to an adoption agency so the can help folks who are adopting meet the financial needs. Or give directly to an orphange. Any of your friends who have adopted can give you names or contact people. E-mail me! I can give you several in Haiti, Russia, Kazakhstan and others, as well as in the U.S.

If you feel lead to help me, I would love to hear from you. The "About Me" has an e-mail link. God is leading me to ask. If He leads you to respond, please listen.

Thursday, September 30, 2010

The Train


When I went to Kazakhstan to adopt Iain, my oldest daughter went with me. No one, it seems, told our contacts in Almaty that there were going to be 2 of us. So they had only arranged for one ticket to fly to Semey. It's about a 2.5 hour flight, but only a couple days a week. We would have to wait 2 days before they could get us a flight for both of us. I could have gone ahead, they told us and my daughter could follow in a couple of days, we could both wait, or we could take the train. Sure, that sounded like fun; we opted for the train. I think we had about 6 hours before we had to leave. We were told we should try to get food to take with us and they pointed out a little store a few blocks from the room we were given. Ok, we are fresh off the plane, tired, foreigners, and don't speak Kazak or Russian. And totally unfamiliar with their food! I think we got some chips and snack type stuff and some water. Then we rested for a bit till it was time to head to the train station.
I remember a lot of running and rushing. I think we pushed the envelope for being 'on time'. As it turned out, our contacts had actually paid some of the train employees for us to have their bunks! Poor guys, I don't know where the had to bunk...don't think I would have gone that route if I had known, but by this time, it was a done deal. So we had a little room with a set of bunks, all our bags and a little 'snack food'. I was pumped...going to meet my son! Yes, I will do anything...lets go...
The daylight hours were beautiful and a little unsettling. There are many very similar characteristics between that area of Kazakhstan and where I live. Looking out the window of the train, I almost thought someone was playing a trick on me, had flown me around in circles, landed me back home and now I was on a train going around in circles an hour or so from my house! It looked so much like home. Beautiful, calming and familiar. Felt good to relax, read, watch and soak it all in. Every so often, little towns came up and the train would stop. Locals got on and off. Many folks did some goods trading right at the trains and got back on headed for the next stop. Saw a few out on horseback as we traveled, a few small farms, but mostly it was the steep. An ocean of desert as far as you can see. Like I said, just like home.
Ok it had to happen...we had to go find the bathroom...
It was a car away. Got to see how the folks who new what they were doing managed. The other rooms were two bunks each with a little space in between. But these folks new what they were doing! Some had those little candle burning things going to cook up their food. FOOD, not snacks. They were friendly enough, smiling and pointing us in the right direction.
I have heard stories of old trains' facilities. There is a toilet, sink, etc., but what there isn't is the exit plumbing. The exit is right out of the bottom of the train onto the tracks. Whatever you are doing just goes right out. Do you have any idea how hard it is to relax and 'let go' when you can see railroad ties flying by underneath you? And there is a flush, but that tends to fly all over the outside of the john because of the tadumptadump motion of the cars. I can't imagine a guy hitting his mark, but at least he didn't have to sit! Gave my bladder a workout. Did not visit any more then necessary. ( I really think there were other bathrooms somewhere that you had to pay extra for; would have done that if I know the language. Note to self...LEARN KAZAK/RUSSIAN before going back.)
I really think the train ride did us a great deal of good. We went to sleep and woke up totally adjusted to the time differences and to more steep. It really is incredible...Now our only worry was would someone tell us when we got to Semey. I could just imagine missing the stop!

13 hours and 55 minutes later, we did get to Semey.

Within 2 hours, I was meeting Iain for the first time. (yes I do have a cheesy smile; bet you do too.)

Monday, September 27, 2010

Mini update

Well, my efforts are not going good. Still working at raising funds. I have had some very unflattering comments directed at me. Guess I forgot how some people view the world. But got me thinking there might be others that think the same way. Why is she trying to beg/borrow/or whatever ...how can she support a child if she can't afford to adopt. My response.
I own my home...have lived here for over 20 years.
I have a very secure job; going into my 23 year at the same place.
I have no bills...everything is paid for.
What I don't have is 25K CASH. If I needed to buy a car, I could do that and make payments. or a boat or a camper or a second home or any number of toys and extras. I could, but that is not where my heart is. It is with kids. Kids that need a home and love and a family. For this, there is no payment plan. Nuff said.

On the positive side, my home study is almost done. Just waiting for one more piece of info! When that is complete, I will be so very close!

Iain is very excited about the prospects of a brother. (Big cheesy smile...me too)

Did you know you can leave comments and e-mail me? I would love to hear from you. (Russia, Denmark, UK...I know you are out there)

Next Post--the train ride in Kazakhstan...:)

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

This so moved me

Recently another child has been added. A little boy name Evan. Evan was a special needs child from Georgia. Evan was adopted by a loving American family on June 28th, 2010. On July 19th, 2010 he left this world. Evan was lucky enough to feel the joy of a family for 22 days. Evan was cheated by the system, wasn't given the right to a family soon enough to save his life. He grew up in an orphanage and then foster-care. Evan spent two years waiting for the family to which he was referred to work through the bureaucracy and complete his adoption. Without the protection that only a family can provide he didn't get the medical care and nurturing that he needed. His condition worsened and despite attempts to save him, Evan passed away.

This was in an update from the Joint Council on International Childrens Services.
Evan was loved. He had a family that did not give up on him. I am sure they knew when they finally got their boy that his life was nearly over. They could have walked away...but they had chosen Evan; hand picked by God. And for 22 days they got to love their boy.

I am beyond words at the love this displays. And I am moved beyond my normal boundries in my own journey to get my boy home. I can not and will not give up on him!

I have seen him (pictures). He's cute as a button, has a little turned up nose and big brown eyes. He looks alot like my 6 year old. They are brothers already in my heart.

I need help.
Two credit unions turned me down.
I can't refinance. When I called to check into that, I was told I was 'dead' at the credit reporting agencies--some carryover goof from when my husband passed away. So, for now, I have no credit and even if it where great, I refinanced when I adopted the first time. There wouldn't be enough equity to try again yet.

I could be traveling in a matter of weeks if I could pull 20K out of a hat! And I am beyond thinking that I can make this happen by myself. I need help!

Would you pray for me.
Would you send my link to your friends and family (e-mail, FB, text, whatever)
Would you ask them to send it to their friends...
You can e-mail me, ask me a hundred questions, verify I am on the up and up...
Would you send me a dollar.
I know a dollar can make a difference or I wouldn't ask!

Thank you with all my heart.
Debbie Hickey
1116 McPherson Ave.
Richland WA 99354